Table 1

Item Stems for the Constructs Measured in the Present Study

ConstructItem
Forgiveness 
  • 1.

    I would try to forgive them.

  • 2.

    It would be easy for me to forgive them.

  • 3.

    I would forgive and forget.

  • 4.

    I would forgive them if they showed me they were sorry.

  • 5.

    I would forgive them if I knew they didn’t do it on purpose.

 
Emotion awareness 
  • 1.

    I can talk about how I am feeling.

  • 2.

    I pay attention to my feelings.

  • 3.

    I try to understand my feelings.

 
Perspective-taking 
  • 1.

    Before I say something bad to someone, I think about how it might make them feel.

  • 2.

    When I’m upset with someone, I try to understand what they’re thinking.

  • 3.

    I try to understand people better by putting myself in their shoes.

 
Humility 
  • 1.

    I am happy for my friends when they win at something.

  • 2.

    I am willing to tell someone when I do something wrong.

  • 3.

    It’s okay when someone shows me that I made a mistake.

  • 4.

    I think all kids have something good about them.

 
Empathy 
  • 1.

    When I see them crying, I also feel like crying.

  • 2..

    When I see them sad, I also feel sad.

  • 3.

    When I see them upset, I also feel upset.

  • 4.

    When I see them happy, I also feel happy.

 
Sympathy 
  • 1.

    When I see someone being teased, I feel sorry for them.

  • 2.

    I feel sorry for people who don’t have the things I have.

  • 3.

    I feel sorry for people who are sad.

 
Caring 
  • 1.

    I care about them if they are treated badly.

  • 2.

    I care about how they feel.

  • 3.

    When I see them getting picked on, I want to help them.

 
Generosity 
  • 1.

    I like to share my things with others.

  • 2.

    I like to give things to my friends and family.

  • 3.

    I like to give things to people who need them.

  • 4.

    I like to help people.

  • 5.

    When my friends or family are sad, I am extra nice to them.

  • 6.

    I do good things even when I know I won’t get anything back

 
Love 
  • 1.

    I feel loved.

  • 2.

    I feel love for others.

  • 3.

    I want to make the world a better place to live in.

  • 4.

    I believe everyone should take care of each other.

 
ConstructItem
Forgiveness 
  • 1.

    I would try to forgive them.

  • 2.

    It would be easy for me to forgive them.

  • 3.

    I would forgive and forget.

  • 4.

    I would forgive them if they showed me they were sorry.

  • 5.

    I would forgive them if I knew they didn’t do it on purpose.

 
Emotion awareness 
  • 1.

    I can talk about how I am feeling.

  • 2.

    I pay attention to my feelings.

  • 3.

    I try to understand my feelings.

 
Perspective-taking 
  • 1.

    Before I say something bad to someone, I think about how it might make them feel.

  • 2.

    When I’m upset with someone, I try to understand what they’re thinking.

  • 3.

    I try to understand people better by putting myself in their shoes.

 
Humility 
  • 1.

    I am happy for my friends when they win at something.

  • 2.

    I am willing to tell someone when I do something wrong.

  • 3.

    It’s okay when someone shows me that I made a mistake.

  • 4.

    I think all kids have something good about them.

 
Empathy 
  • 1.

    When I see them crying, I also feel like crying.

  • 2..

    When I see them sad, I also feel sad.

  • 3.

    When I see them upset, I also feel upset.

  • 4.

    When I see them happy, I also feel happy.

 
Sympathy 
  • 1.

    When I see someone being teased, I feel sorry for them.

  • 2.

    I feel sorry for people who don’t have the things I have.

  • 3.

    I feel sorry for people who are sad.

 
Caring 
  • 1.

    I care about them if they are treated badly.

  • 2.

    I care about how they feel.

  • 3.

    When I see them getting picked on, I want to help them.

 
Generosity 
  • 1.

    I like to share my things with others.

  • 2.

    I like to give things to my friends and family.

  • 3.

    I like to give things to people who need them.

  • 4.

    I like to help people.

  • 5.

    When my friends or family are sad, I am extra nice to them.

  • 6.

    I do good things even when I know I won’t get anything back

 
Love 
  • 1.

    I feel loved.

  • 2.

    I feel love for others.

  • 3.

    I want to make the world a better place to live in.

  • 4.

    I believe everyone should take care of each other.

 

Note: Forgiveness items were adapted from the Child/Adolescent Dispositional Forgiveness Inventory (Leever, 2006) and the Child Trends (2003) Flourishing Children Project. Emotion awareness items were adapted from the Emotion Expression Scale for Children (Penza-Clyve & Zeman, 2002). Perspective-taking items were adapted from the Thinking and Feeling Scale (Garton & Gringart, 2005). Humility items were created for the Arthur Interactive Media Buddy Project (Bowers et al., 2015). Empathy items were adapted from the Basic Empathy Scale (Jollife & Farrington, 2006). Sympathy items were adapted from the Individual Reactivity Index (IRI; Davis, 1983). Caring items were adapted from the IRI (Davis, 1983). Generosity items were adapted from the Interpersonal Generosity Scale (Smith & Hill, 2009) and the Community Feeling Subscale of Aspiration Index (Kasser & Ryan, 1996). Love items were adapted from the Great LoveCompassion Scale (Warren, 2009) and the functional assessment of chronic illness therapy-spiritual well-being scale (FACIT-Sp-Ex; Brady, Peterman et al., 1999).

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