Chapter 6: I Am Because You Are: The Importance of Being Given Roots to Grow and Wings to Fly

I had heard the above saying before, but I recently heard this while in conversation with a fellow colleague: “Wings show you what you can become, while roots remind you of where you are from.” There were many people and situations that helped me to soar and rise above the risks and adverse situations that I faced. There were times when my wings were clipped and needed to be mended; however, once they were mended, my flight towards my destiny continued. I am reminded daily of where I am from, especially by those who might not have “made it” or who may not be happy with their current situations. Growing up in Gaffney, South Carolina did not allow for much exposure to positive examples of women of color who were successful. I am what some might call “the exception.” I do not know of many young women who grew up in similar situations like me to have attained a doctorate degree. Although my story is still being written, it is my hope that this account of my journey proves that despite challenges and complexities, one’s fate is not sealed and he or she can overcome adversity and live a productive life.